Anal sex is one of the most sought-after sexual activities. The anus is essentially a muscular canal with the opening at the bottom and walls gradually rising upward into the body. The act of penetrating the anus is called by many names such as analingus, analingus/oral, penetration, and rimming. Whatever you call it, it is one of the most intimate and enjoyable acts that you can engage in.
But just how safe is anal sex? With some precautions, it can be extremely safe. The only concern should be bacteria and viruses that are passed from person to person during intercourse. There is such a thing as too much of a good thing, and doing it inside of an anus is undoubtedly not too good at all.
Women are not at all against the idea. They think it is an excellent idea for many reasons. One of the reasons is because it can provide them with a different orgasmic experience. Anal sex can produce such intense sexual tension that a woman may climax from stress and muscular contractions without touching her partner. This is usually only on television or movies, but it can be done safely between two consenting adults.
Here are a few precautions you can take:
1. Have a condom ready at all times. This is both for the woman and the man. You never know if you are going to be getting it on with this person or not. There should be a reason why you are even having sex with this person. And for the man, he doesn’t want to get it on with a condom unless he is certain that the woman he is with is not infected with an STD.
2. Don’t do it contrary to your beliefs. If you want to try anal sex, then do it the pausal way. That is the most logical way to do it. The vagina muscles aren’t the same as when you were in your 20s and 30s. You can’t just expect to jump in there and hope to get in the mood. Just as the penis can’t perform as well as when you were younger, the vaginal muscles aren’t always the same as when you were younger. If you try to approach the vagina in this manner, you could hurt the woman. The same is said for the anus. Slow it down a bit and get your butt puckering with excitement.
3. Once you have entered the anal canal, use plenty of lubrication at all times. It would help if you used a lot of lubrication in the beginning because the constant friction can be very painful. If you aren’t using lube, then you shouldn’t do it. The best way to have pleasurable anal sex is preparation and keeping clean before you jump inside. Think “enema”; this will help keep things clean and lubricated, making both partners feel more comfortable and at ease with the activity.
By following these tips, you will be able to add anal play to your repertoire, and you will both be happier with the activity.
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